Today’s Featured Question:
 
I find myself attracted to a she-male who lives nearby. She has invited me over for drinks, and I am scared and excited at the same time. Should I accept the offer? Does this mean I’m bisexual? I’m confused, to say the least.
—A.J., Miami, Florida

Answer:
 
Your confusion is understandable, but many straight men tell us they find themselves lusting after male-to-female transsexuals in transition, a.k.a. chicks with dicks (converting the penis to a vagina is among the last, and most expensive, steps of the process). Some are excited by the idea that the woman has a “surprise” in store; others are simply aroused by the taboo of hooking up with someone most people unjustly shun. Your curiosity doesn’t necessarily mean you’re bisexual, just adventurous. Maybe this is only us, but we would be fascinated to hear about the challenges of her life and the reactions she gets.

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